Lolita complex

As you know, there are many Otaku ( geeks) in Japan. Especially there are a lot of people who has Lolita complex. Actually we can't say " When the word of Lolita began" exactly. However the beginning we magazines and about from 1980 it famous little by little and penetrate into our lives.
From the past steered system of householder and people think men exist to keep house and families also women exist to bear and bring up. This was ( and is ) included in bottom of marriage reasons. Therefore men thought they want to save good gens between only their own family so men have to not to allow women affair. So women have to be simple, obedient and young for men.
Actually customs which women because middle of teens married was existed around Kanto (area). Because young women have less risks to have babies than older ones. As there reasons young women ware chosen.
At present, People say grass eating boys are increasing. Generally speaking, grass eating boy is man who likes hobbies which is liked women and kind of otaku. it doesn't mean only men don't likes women exactly. Because otaku are interested in Lolita complexed women.
Recently many women work i societies. Women's rights of company are still few but women become stronger than ever. So men may feel small but men still think men want to be domination. Japanese custom which is household system also help its thoughts.
In fact that I was said by men who is almost 40 years old. From your age view, I'm old and I'm not your target but from our age you are in my target" I think it can be proof.